md-cluster: don't send msg if array is closing

If we close an array which resync thread is running,
then we don't need the node to send msg since another
node would launch the resync thread to continue the
rest works. Also send a message is time consuming,
we should avoid it.

Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <gqjiang@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>