android: binder: fix the race mmap and alloc_new_buf_locked

There is RaceFuzzer report like below because we have no lock to close
below the race between binder_mmap and binder_alloc_new_buf_locked.
To close the race, let's use memory barrier so that if someone see
alloc->vma is not NULL, alloc->vma_vm_mm should be never NULL.

(I didn't add stable mark intentionallybecause standard android
userspace libraries that interact with binder (libbinder & libhwbinder)
prevent the mmap/ioctl race. - from Todd)

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Thread interleaving:
CPU0 (binder_alloc_mmap_handler)              CPU1 (binder_alloc_new_buf_locked)
=====                                         =====
// drivers/android/binder_alloc.c
// #L718 (v4.18-rc3)
alloc->vma = vma;
                                              // drivers/android/binder_alloc.c
                                              // #L346 (v4.18-rc3)
                                              if (alloc->vma == NULL) {
                                                  ...
         ...