mei: revamp me clients list handling

1. Use rw lock to access the me_clients list

2. Reuse already defined find functions also when
removing particular me client

3. Add wrappers for addition  and deletion

Signed-off-by: Tomas Winkler <tomas.winkler@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>