fs: dlm: move sending fin message into state change handling

This patch moves the send fin handling, which should appear in a specific
state change, into the state change handling while the per node
state_lock is held. I experienced issues with other messages because
we changed the state and a fin message was sent out in a different state.

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Fixes: 489d8e55

 ("fs: dlm: add reliable connection if reconnect")
Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>