phylib: introduce PHY_INTERFACE_MODE_XGMII for 10G PHY

Signed-off-by: Andy Fleming <afleming@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohui Xie <Shaohui.Xie@freescale.com>
Acked-by: Florian Fainelli <f.fainelli@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>