[SCSI] aacraid: Track command ownership in driver

Received from Mark Salyzyn

The loss of the ownership flags, despite their flaws, in the scsi
command were sorely missed and are reinstated more accurately in the
aacraid driver to track commands and permit us to properly handle error
recovery actions.

Signed-off-by: Mark Haverkamp <markh@osdl.org>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>