xfrm: avoid synchronize_rcu during netns destruction

Use the new exit_pre hook to NULL the netlink socket.
The net namespace core will do a synchronize_rcu() between the exit_pre
and exit/exit_batch handlers.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>