macvtap: add ioctl to modify vnet header size

This adds TUNSETVNETHDRSZ/TUNGETVNETHDRSZ support
to macvtap.

Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Arnd Bergmann <arnd@arndb.de>
Acked-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>