xfs: Replace xfs_isilocked with xfs_assert_ilocked

To use the new rwsem_assert_held()/rwsem_assert_held_write(), we can't
use the existing ASSERT macro.  Add a new xfs_assert_ilocked() and
convert all the callers.

Fix an apparent bug in xfs_isilocked(): If the caller specifies
XFS_IOLOCK_EXCL | XFS_ILOCK_EXCL, xfs_assert_ilocked() will check both
the IOLOCK and the ILOCK are held for write.  xfs_isilocked() only
checked that the ILOCK was held for write.

xfs_assert_ilocked() is always on, even if DEBUG or XFS_WARN aren't
defined.  It's a cheap check, so I don't think it's worth defining
it away.

Reviewed-by: "Darrick J. Wong" <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: "Matthew Wilcox (Oracle)" <willy@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Chandan Babu R <chandanbabu@kernel.org>