drm/amdgpu: stop reserving the BO in the MMU callback v3

Instead take the callback lock during the final parts of CS.

This should solve the last remaining locking order problems with BO reservations.

v2: rebase, make dummy functions static inline
v3: add one more missing inline and comments

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Felix Kuehling <Felix.Kuehling@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>