netfilter: nf_conntrack_sip: fix expectation clash

When conntracks change during a dialog, SDP messages may be sent from
different conntracks to establish expects with identical tuples. In this
case expects conflict may be detected for the 2nd SDP message and end up
with a process failure.

The fixing here is to reuse an existing expect who has the same tuple for a
different conntrack if any.

Here are two scenarios for the case.

1)
         SERVER                   CPE

           |      INVITE SDP       |
      5060 |<----------------------|5060
           |      100 Trying       |
      5060 |---------------------->|5060
           |      183 SDP          |
      5060 |---------------------->|5060    ===> Conntrack 1
           |       PRACK           |
     50601 |<----------------------|5060
           |    200 OK (PRACK)     |
     50601 |---------------------->|5060
           |    200 OK (INVITE)    |
      5060 |---------------------->|5060
           |        ACK            |
     50601 |<-----...