dma-direct: add a CONFIG_ARCH_HAS_DMA_ALLOC symbol

Instead of using arch_dma_alloc if none of the generic coherent
allocators are used, require the architectures to explicitly opt into
providing it.  This will used to deal with the case of m68knommu and
coldfire where we can't do any coherent allocations whatsoever, and
also makes it clear that arch_dma_alloc is a last resort.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Robin Murphy <robin.murphy@arm.com>
Reviewed-by: Greg Ungerer <gerg@linux-m68k.org>
Tested-by: Greg Ungerer <gerg@linux-m68k.org>