nbd: replace kill_bdev() with __invalidate_device() again

Commit abbbdf12 ("replace kill_bdev() with __invalidate_device()")
once did this, but 29eaadc0 ("nbd: stop using the bdev everywhere")
resurrected kill_bdev() and it has been there since then. So buffer_head
mappings still get killed on a server disconnection, and we can still
hit the BUG_ON on a filesystem on the top of the nbd device.

  EXT4-fs (nbd0): mounted filesystem with ordered data mode. Opts: (null)
  block nbd0: Receive control failed (result -32)
  block nbd0: shutting down sockets
  print_req_error: I/O error, dev nbd0, sector 66264 flags 3000
  EXT4-fs warning (device nbd0): htree_dirblock_to_tree:979: inode #2: lblock 0: comm ls: error -5 reading directory block
  print_req_error: I/O error, dev nbd0, sector 2264 flags 3000
  EXT4-fs error (device nbd0): __ext4_get_inode_loc:4690: inode #2: block 283: comm ls: unable to read itable block
  EXT4-fs error (device nbd0) in ext4_reserve_inode_write:5894: IO failure
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