shmem: move the shmem_mapping assert into shmem_get_folio_gfp

Move the check that the inode really is a shmemfs one from
shmem_read_folio_gfp to shmem_get_folio_gfp given that shmem_get_folio
can also be called from outside of shmem.c.  Also turn it into a
WARN_ON_ONCE and error return instead of BUG_ON to be less severe.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: "Matthew Wilcox (Oracle)" <willy@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: "Darrick J. Wong" <djwong@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Chandan Babu R <chandanbabu@kernel.org>