ice: Query the Tx scheduler node before adding it

Query the Tx scheduler tree node information from FW before adding it to
the driver's software database. This will keep the node information current
in driver.

Signed-off-by: Anirudh Venkataramanan <anirudh.venkataramanan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>