vdpa/mlx5: Introduce per vq and device resume

Implement vdpa vq and device resume if capability detected. Add support
for suspend -> ready state change.

Reviewed-by: Gal Pressman <gal@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dragos Tatulea <dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Message-Id: <20231225151203.152687-4-dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>