i40e: fix up NVM update sm error handling

The state transitions after an error were not managed well, so
these changes get us back to the INIT state or don't transition
out of the INIT state after most errors.

Change-ID: I90aa0e4e348dc4f58cbcdce9c5d4b7fd35981c6c
Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@intel.com>
Acked-by: Michal Kosiarz <michal.kosiarz@intel.com>
Tested-by: Jim Young <jamesx.m.young@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>