drbd: Always use the same protocol version for the same peer

There is no need to send protocol 80 headers to peers that understand
protocol 95 headers.  Make sure that we don't send protocol 95 headers
until we have agreed upon a protocol version with our peer, though.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>