block: don't allow a disk link holder to itself

After creating a dm device, then user can reload such dm with itself,
and dead loop will be triggered because dm keep looking up to itself.

Test procedures:

1) dmsetup create test --table "xxx sda", assume dm-0 is created
2) dmsetup suspend test
3) dmsetup reload test --table "xxx dm-0"
4) dmsetup resume test

Test result:

BUG: TASK stack guard page was hit at 00000000736a261f (stack is 000000008d12c88d..00000000c8dd82d5)
stack guard page: 0000 [#1] PREEMPT SMP
CPU: 29 PID: 946 Comm: systemd-udevd Not tainted 6.1.0-rc3-next-20221101-00006-g17640ca3b0ee #1295
Hardware name: QEMU Standard PC (i440FX + PIIX, 1996), BIOS ?-20190727_073836-buildvm-ppc64le-16.ppc.fedoraproject.org-3.fc31 04/01/2014
RIP: 0010:dm_prepare_ioctl+0xf/0x1e0
Code: da 48 83 05 4a 7c 99 0b 01 41 89 c4 eb cd e8 b8 1f 40 00 0f 1f 84 00 00 00 00 00 0f 1f 44 00 00 41 57 48 83 05 a1 5a 99 0b 01 <41> 56 49 89 d6 41 55 4c 8d af 90 02 00 00 9
RSP: 0018:ffffc90002090000 EFLAGS: 00010206
RAX: fff...