chore(mac): force detach of disk image during build after 5 failures

Fixes #10200.

This is a two-part fix. First, with our normal `set -e` build
environment, the existing loop never ran more than once, so the 5
second delay pattern we used to use in the dim dark past was no longer
being applied. It is likely that in most cases, this will address the
failure to detach.

The second part is to escalate our detach with a `-force` parameter,
after 5 failed polite attempts. This is new and is addressing the
suggestion in #10200, so we'll have to see if it has any impact on
build stability.